Sanskrit & Shastra

I Want a Brother Like Ravana!

Mudit Agrawal · English edition 18 October 2026 · Hindi original 22 September 2017 · 4 min read

Nowadays, a claim has been very cleverly propagated among Hindus that Ravana never touched any woman, that even if he possessed lust, he also possessed self-restraint, and so forth, in order to prove Ravana a man of character and to distance people from Shri Ram and bring them closer to the rakshasa (demon) Ravana. But is it really true that Ravana never touched another man's wife? That he never touched Sitaji? The answer is that this is a total falsehood!!

The most authoritative text on the life of Shri Ram is the Valmiki Ramayana, composed by Maharishi Valmiki, a contemporary of Shri Ram. This is the most ancient text on the life of Shri Ram. After this come the Shri Ramcharitmanas composed by Goswami Tulsidas and the Tamil text Kamba Ramayanam composed by Rishi (sage) Kamban. The authors of both the Ramcharitmanas and the Kamba Ramayanam have clearly stated at the very beginning of their texts that they are writing based on the Valmiki Ramayana. Therefore, among these three as well, the Sanskrit text Valmiki Ramayana remains the most authoritative.

Abduction of Sita

According to the Valmiki Ramayana, Ravana was a most wicked rakshasa who was a repository of all vices; he would have meat thrown into yajnas (sacred fire rituals), have rishis murdered, and commit the most heinous acts like the rape of women. According to the Valmiki Ramayana, he was not at all a man of character. Those who say that Ravana did not even touch Sitaji have neither studied the Ramayana nor do they exercise their intellect. That Ravana did not touch another man's wife is completely false; the Ramayana itself refutes this.

See from the Valmiki Ramayana -

In the Aranya Kanda, numerous shlokas (verses) clearly describe that Ravana abducted Mata Sita while overcome by lust. Blinded by lust, Ravana gave a most vulgar description of Mata Sita, which I do not wish to reproduce here. Mata Sita rebuked and reviled that wretch in many ways, describing the valour and glory of Shri Ram, warning and threatening him to stay away. However, that villainous creature ruthlessly grabbed Mother Sita by her hair and touched her with his sinful hands. Thereupon, Mata Sita, deeply wounded, began to lament grievously and, squirming in agony, hurled numerous reproaches at Ravana. People nowadays take great interest in proving such a sinful soul to be a mahatma (great soul). Read this, and see if your mind does not fill with disgust as well...

इत्युक्त्वा मैथिलीं वाक्यं प्रियार्हां प्रियवादिनीम्।।
अभिगम्य सुदुष्टात्मा राक्षसः काममोहितः।
जग्राह रावणः सीतां बुधः खे रोहिणीम् इव।।
वामेन सीतां पद्माक्षीं मूर्धजेषु करेण सः।
ऊर्वोस्तु दक्षिणेनैव परिजग्राह पाणिना।।
- Valmiki Ramayana, Aranya Kanda, Sarga 49, Verses 15-17

Having spoken such disagreeable words to Sita, the Princess of Mithila—who was worthy of loving speech and accustomed to speaking endearingly—that utterly evil-minded rakshasa Ravana, infatuated with lust, approached and seized Sita (who was venerable like a mother), as if Budha (Mercury) insolently attempted to seize his mother Rohini in the sky. With his left hand, he grasped lotus-eyed Sita by her head and hair, and placing his right hand under both her thighs, he lifted her up.

ततस्तां परुषैर्वाक्यैरभितर्ज्य महास्वनः।
प्रत्यदृश्यत हेमाङ्गो रावणस्य महारथः।।
- Valmiki Ramayana, Aranya Kanda, Sarga 49, Verse 20

As soon as the chariot appeared, Ravana, roaring loudly, threatened Sita, the daughter of Videha, with harsh words, and lifting her into his lap as described earlier, placed her immediately upon the chariot.

Look at how explicitly it is written in the Ramayana that Ravana not only cruelly touched Sitaji with his hands, but brazenly abducted her by lifting her from under her thighs and placing her in his lap. Look at the next verse again: even while entering Lanka, the villainous Ravana held her in his lap so that she could not escape his grip.

स तु सीतां विचेष्टन्तीमङ्केनादाय रावणः।
प्रविवेश पुरीं लङ्कां रुपिणीं मृत्युमात्मनः।।
- Valmiki Ramayana, Aranya Kanda, Sarga 54, Verse 11

As Sita writhed in struggle, Ravana entered the city of Lanka holding her in his arms, carrying his own personified death.

These verses and meanings have been taken from the *Srimad Valmiki Ramayana* with translation published in two volumes by Gita Press. It is clear from the evidence that Ravana was an utterly characterless enemy of women. He was a villain who abducted, humiliated, and committed atrocities upon women, and driven by lust, he not only touched Sitaji but forcibly abducted her through violence. Now, if anyone says that Ravana did not touch another man's wife, give them a fitting reply by showing this post and stop the spread of falsehoods. Jai Shri Ram.

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Cite this article

Mudit Agrawal. “I Want a Brother Like Ravana!”. YugSamvad, 18 October 2026. https://yugsamvad.com/en/articles/mujhe-raavana-jaisaa-bhaaee-chaahie

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